It seems to me that someone is playing a trick on me to see just how much stress one person can take.
As if the run up to April 15th weren’t hectic enough, not onlyÂ am I managing the people below me, and my ownÂ work, I also have to manage the people above me (which means that none of my work is actuallyÂ getting done,Â particularly since I can’t work lateÂ without risking losing days in bed, ill). What I really needed, therefore, was forÂ an argument about who was authorised for services on my main client to blow up.Â I was never involved in this but am the only person available to dig into it all and try and calm people down. Great.
On top of which I seem toÂ have everyÂ client everÂ requesting status updates, which means that my time is spent chasing other people instead of actually doing work (when I’m not ranting on blogs, that is).
Divorcewise, IÂ dutifully sent off the cheque and instructions (the previous 2 sets of which had been lost) to my solicitor on Monday, with a note for them to callÂ me when the package was received (so many packages and e-mails have been lost). No call yet, so IÂ phone the office. The person dealing with my case isÂ on holiday, the person covering their work is too busy to talk to me, but they willÂ send me a note if they’ve received my cheque. SoÂ if they haven’t, exactly how long is it going to take them to work that out? This is only the firstÂ counter-offerÂ on the divorce settlement, which I instructed them about on 13 March, there could be several offers backwards and forwards until it is resolved and the divorce is supposed to be being finalised in under 3 weeksÂ (with payment 4 weeks after that). The financial arguments could delay the divorce being finalised, or they might not. I don’t know how much money I’m going to haveÂ to raise, or in how short a space of time. I don’t know when I’m going to be able to get my house to myself. Oh, and myÂ solicitor is on leave until a week on Monday, the 14th, just over a week before the divorce is supposed to be finalised. Marvellous.Â The other side are bound to get arsey because they won’t have had a response in a month despite the fact that I responded on the same day as I got the letter from my solicitor.Â
All of which is delaying my pre-registration for EJC as names on credit cards need to match up. Swell.